Description
A psychotherapist of 30 years, Nancy Ellis-Ordway explains how she helps people get off the weight loss roller coaster, make peace with food and their bodies, and improve their health to find happiness and a better quality of life.
Widespread publicity about βthe war on obesityβ has led to pervasive anxiety, distress, and shame about eating, says psychotherapist Nancy Ellis-Ordway. Many people feel at war with their bodies rather than at home, in large part because of weight stigma and the unrelenting pursuit of thinness in America.
This book offers a detailed approach for change, with a particular focus on βthe message we give ourselvesβ when we eat, exercise, and interact with other people. This process incorporates operating from an internal locus of control as a way to improve self-esteem.
Elllis-Ordway, in contrast to the βdiet mentalityβ that is full of restrictions, first has clients focus on building self-esteem and growing a desire for self-care. She teaches clients to develop an ability to βlisten to their own bodiesβ for guidance to eat for physical and mental health. The better we listen to and fulfill our bodyβs needs, she explains, the better our self-esteem and health becomes, and the more we believe we are βworth itβ and are able to meet our objectives.
Includes client stories reflecting success with this method
Explains how to begin by rebuilding self-esteem
Details how to listen to your body for signals on what to eat for better health
Describes why a focus on weight loss leads to poorer outcomesβphysically, mentally, and socially
Coaches readers on how to change the messages we give ourselves
Aims foremost to help you build a good relationship with food, your body, and yourself