A rustic Pacific Northwest hotel shown at dusk, with lots of wood and glass.

Meet us at Alderbrook Hotel for the fat-friendly Exhale Retreat

Laura and I spent ages researching venues for the Exhale Retreat, and we’re so excited with the venue we found, Alderbrook Resort on Washington state’s lovely Hood Canal, part of Puget Sound. No hotel offers perfect lodging for fat and superfat guests, but we think this is as close as it gets. I even went…

A set of mantras to improve and create positive body image, meant for plus-size and fat people.
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Truths about my body | Positive body image for plus-size and fat people

My humanity gives me inherent worth. My body is worthy because it’s mine. My body deserves love, attention, and care no matter what. My body is worthy no matter its health status. My body is worthy no matter its age. My body can “pull off” anything I want to put on it. My body and…

Should healthcare providers be excused for weight stigma in medicine?
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Should healthcare providers be excused for weight stigma in medicine?

“They don’t know any better.” When I talk about weight stigma/weight bias and fatphobia in healthcare, that’s often the excuse that people make to me on behalf of healthcare providers. “That’s how they were taught.” In 2022, that excuse just isn’t good enough any more. Not only do we have a half-century of evidence that…

A background of autumn leaves with the name of the Exhale Pacific Northwest body positive and fat positive retreat and Laura and Lindley's illustrated profile images.
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Fat friend, you deserve connection, rest, and ease.

We know how heavy and exhausting existing in this world can be. We all carry the weight of holding boundaries, managing others’ entitlement, navigating systems of oppression, and all the other burdens fat folks are made to hold on a daily basis. We are tired! In a culture that has commodified self-care down to bubble…

This week’s journaling and brave learning topics in the Body Liberation Blanket Fort

This week’s journaling and brave learning topics in the Body Liberation Blanket Fort

Over in the Blanket Fort, we’re journaling about magazines’ effect on body image, and discussing finding care and company in these difficult days. The Body Liberation Blanket Fort is my closed, diet-talk-free community. It’s open to all, and we center fat folks and other marginalized groups. All you need to get access is to support…

AAAAAAAAA! I’ve done my first published book blurb!
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AAAAAAAAA! I’ve done my first published book blurb!

AAAAAAAAA! I’ve done my first published book blurb, and it’s for Amanda Martinez Beck’s excellent new book More of You! Here’s what I wrote (plus extra text that was cut for length): “More of You grapples with some of the central conflicts of today’s body liberation movements. Beck’s religion informs her writing as she reconciles…

14+ Weight Neutral and Health at Every Size Resources for Managing Chronic Illness
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14+ Weight Neutral and Health at Every Size Resources for Managing Chronic Illness

Some days, caring for our fat bodies looks exactly like caring for any human body. On other days, we may need a little extra something to carry on. When it comes to chronic health conditions, though, caring for a fat body can be very different. Why? Because fat bodies are subject to weight stigma: discrimination…

Featured Body Liberation Stock Contributor: Tatiana Gill

Featured Body Liberation Stock Contributor: Tatiana Gill

Meet Tatiana, one of Body Liberation Stock’s contributors! Here’s how Tatiana describes herself: “Tatiana Gill is a Seattle based cartoonist who uses her art to show resilience and vulnerability, and representing diversity that goes unseen in most media. Themes include self love, health care, and feminism. Tatiana has created dozens of self-published comic books, teaches…

12 Stock Photos of People Practicing Intuitive Eating & Food Neutrality

12 Stock Photos of People Practicing Intuitive Eating & Food Neutrality

As a photographer who produces stock images and is involved in the world of Health at Every Size® and intuitive eating, I do a lot of thinking about people, food, and the relationships between the two. Plenty of my work rebels against diet culture by pairing women in large bodies with “sinful” foods like cupcakes…

A close-up photo of a green tablecloth and the corners of five photographic prints from a Seattle body liberation family portrait session. The prints have the initials LA on them in gold pen.
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Packing up some client orders | Seattle body liberation portrait photographer

Packing up some client orders and Body Love Shop orders today, including signing and matting these pearl prints. They’ll go into a watered Japanese silk-covered folio box and then be delivered to the client along with the digital images that also came with their session.

A fat white woman does a backbend on a beach in a strappy bathing suit. Over her head is the title of the post, Why I took the body-positive photography pledge.

Why I took the body-positive photography pledge | Seattle portrait, boudoir and small business photographer

Since I’m so involved in the day-to-day work of body liberation photography, it’s easy to forget how extraordinary this work really is.  There are very few people on the planet who offer photography services that are truly welcoming for fat and very fat people. It’s incredibly important to me that you feel safe, comfortable and happy whenever…

A photo of a teal blue birdbath full of water behind a yellow bar with the title of this blog post, which is a list of articles and resources for fat, larger-bodied and plus-size people for abortions in the United States.
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Post-Roe Roundup: Abortion Access Resources for Plus-Size and Fat People

I had a nightmare last night that I needed an abortion and couldn’t find the clinic. Lots of people are living that nightmare today. I made a post of all the resources I’ve been sharing on Twitter and in my newsletter. Many of them are for everyone, though some are specifically for plus-size and fat…

Free bracelet with any In-House Collection purchase in July | Body-positive and fat-positive gifts

Free bracelet with any In-House Collection purchase in July | Body-positive and fat-positive gifts

It’s my birthday month! In celebration, I’m giving away a free hand-knotted bracelet by artist Mackensie Layne Sheldon with every order from the Body Love Shop’s In-House Collection placed in July. Images: Views of a bunch of colorful handmade friendship-style bracelets gathered on a wood and macrame shelf, and on a dark teal blanket.

What I’ve been up to lately | Seattle boudoir and portrait photography
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What I’ve been up to lately | Seattle boudoir and portrait photography

What I’ve been up to lately, in no particular order: » My new Maya Kern and SergleShop skirt came in! » Twirling in this skirt. It has huge pockets and it’s comfy and I love it. » Was in a hit and run accident last week. Fun. » One advantage of cool PNW summers is…

Every American capable of pregnancy lost a fundamental right today.

Every American capable of pregnancy lost a fundamental right today.

Every American capable of pregnancy lost a fundamental right today. People will die because of this — especially people who are Black, Brown, fat, disabled, trans, non-binary and/or in other marginalized groups. Not just due to medical complications and makeshift abortions, but due to the horrifying rates of domestic violence and murder to which pregnant…

A fat white woman with shoulder-length brown hair and glasses smiles down at yarn she is winding on a wooden device into a spool. She's wearing an intricate handmade sweater at her Seattle body-positive small business portrait photo shoot.

Sneak peek: Meghan Matt’s Small Business Photo Session | Seattle portrait photographer

Here’s a sneak peek of Meghan @thebrassydiva’s Good to Go small business photo session with me last week! I am totally in awe that she made that sweater. Amazing, right? In case you missed it yesterday, I also announced my brand-new podcast, Bad Fatty, with Laura Burns, and am giving away a copy of Laura’s…

Bad Fatty Podcast launch and Big & Bold Yoga giveaway!
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Bad Fatty Podcast launch and Big & Bold Yoga giveaway!

I said I would never do a podcast, but it turns out that I needed just the right partner.  Laura Burns and I had been having these really fantastic fat liberation discussions, and finally Laura noted how cool it would be to let other people be a fly on the wall for it. (She also…

This week’s journaling and brave learning topics in the Body Liberation Blanket Fort

This week’s journaling and brave learning topics in the Body Liberation Blanket Fort

Over in the Blanket Fort, we’re journaling about how pop culture has affected how we see our bodies, and discussing the accuracy of terms like fatphobia, fatmisia and anti-fat bias. The Body Liberation Blanket Fort is my closed, diet-talk-free community. It’s open to all, and we center fat folks and other marginalized groups. All you…

Bad Fatty Podcast Episode 1: What the hell is Donut Lake?
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Bad Fatty Podcast Episode 1: What the hell is Donut Lake?

“ This is Bad Fatty with Laura Burns and Lindley Ashline. We’re two rad fatties chatting about the world we live in and how to change it. In this episode, we’re talking about the difference between a good fatty and a bad fatty, body positivity versus body liberation, and Donut Lake and Liberation Lake. Listen…

A through-the-windshield photo of driving onto a large ferry beside other cars. In the foreground is a metal structure like a bridge over the road.
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A day in the life: Vashon Island, WA fat-positive small business branding photo session

Went out to Vashon for a client photo session today! I’d forgotten how lush and gorgeous Vashon is, and the state ferries are always fun to ride. Found a nice little cafe and bakery for lunch, too! No photo because I was driving, but just after I got off the ferry on the island, there…

New: Plus-Size Hiker Collection at Body Liberation Stock

New: Plus-Size Hiker Collection at Body Liberation Stock

In these 14 new images, a fat white woman (me!) hikes up a gravel path in the mountains on a sunny autumn afternoon. They were taken in Mount Baker National Forest. Traditional stock photography sites offer images that almost always feature young, thin, white, able-bodied people. Does that really reflect the dizzyingly diverse array of…