December Body Liberation Book Club Pick: Fat Girl
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December Body Liberation Book Club Pick: Fat Girl

December’s pick for the Body Liberation Book Club will be Fat Girl by Judith Moore! Join us on Thursday, December 26 (yes, the day after Christmas) at 7 pm (Jalisco restaurant, 12336 31st Ave NE, Seattle, WA 98125) for a fat-friendly hangout and book discussion. Newcomers are very welcome! About the Body Liberation Book Club…

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The Calendar! Body Positive Events Around the World

This calendar is provided as a public resource for the body positivity, fat acceptance, plus-size fashion, and Health at Every Size (HAES) communities. I’m not affiliated with any events except the ones in bold, and at this time I’m not compensated for any event listings. The calendar is current on hold due to so many…

Inclusive and Diverse Marketing in Yoga & Fitness Spaces: A NEDA and YBIC Roundtable Discussion (video with transcript)
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Inclusive and Diverse Marketing in Yoga & Fitness Spaces: A NEDA and YBIC Roundtable Discussion (video with transcript)

I was honored to recently be part of a roundtable series, a collaboration between the National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA) and Yoga & Body Image Coalition (YBIC), called Growing & Thriving Together: A Roundtable Series on Diversity, Inclusivity & Accessibility in Yoga and Fitness Spaces. The discussion for which I was a panelist focused on…

Fat Artists’ Open House & Overstock Sale December 7-8
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Fat Artists’ Open House & Overstock Sale December 7-8

Get an edge on your holiday shopping and support fat artists at the first annual at Artists’ Open House & Overstock Sale! We’ll have a range of body-positive and creative goods for you, including: THE BODY LOVE BOX: Overstock boxes from previous months, books, stickers, bookmarks, self-care items, zines, figurines, and art prints Body Liberation…

November Body Liberation Book Club Pick: Heavy
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November Body Liberation Book Club Pick: Heavy

November’s pick for the Body Liberation Book Club will be Heavy by Kiese Laymon! Join us on Friday, November 29 at 7 pm (Amante Pizza on Roosevelt Way in Seattle) for a fat-friendly hangout and book discussion. Newcomers are very welcome! Content note: Heavy contains potentially difficult material, including descriptions of sexual abuse. Reading this…

Park Rangers, Young Lovers, Fatphobia and Resilience
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Park Rangers, Young Lovers, Fatphobia and Resilience

I went on a trip! It was lovely! At least, most of it was. People in small bodies go out in public and come home with lovely memories. People in fat bodies go out in public and come home with thorns among the roses. The Young Lovers This is the couple who wanted my spot…

Infinite Swim: Where to Find Swimsuits in Sizes 32+
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Infinite Swim: Where to Find Swimsuits in Sizes 32+

One of the best things about summer is water: swimming, splashing, wading, dancing, drinking, flavoring, floating, fishing, boating, or soaking in it! The larger your clothing size, though, the more challenging it can be to find a swimsuit you find comfortable or beautiful. For folks who wear clothing sizes larger than are generally carried at…

An open letter to allies, HAES providers, body image and body positivity activists, and influencers who live in small and medium-sized bodies. A fat woman in a bright pink dress is shown from the shoulders up, reaching high into the air in front of a magnolia tree. In the foreground, white text reads, An open letter to my allies.
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An open letter to my allies

Allies, HAES providers, body image and body positivity activists, and influencers who live in small and medium-sized bodies: Where are you when a superfat person posts a bikini photo and is rewarded with, not the accolades you receive for your vulnerability and bravery, but uniform disgust? Where are you when fat activists are exhausted at…

An open letter to fitness professionals
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An open letter to fitness professionals

Over on the Association for Size Diversity and Health (ASDAH) blog, I’m talking about Mary, a fictional fatty, and her experience in the fitness world. Recently I saw a comment from a fitness professional that got me thinking. She said that she wants to help people in bodies of all sizes get to the β€œhappy…

{Guest Post} Glorious Fat People: My Gratitude for Finding Comfort in an Uncomfortable World
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{Guest Post} Glorious Fat People: My Gratitude for Finding Comfort in an Uncomfortable World

This is a guest post from Dawn Clark, who graciously allowed me to share her experience at the National Association for the Advancement of Fat Acceptance, or NAAFA. – Lindley I have been fat most of my life, and if there were one word to describe my fat life thus far, it would be “uncomfortable.”…

Sweet Amaranth is now Body Liberation Photography
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Sweet Amaranth is now Body Liberation Photography

“Oh, phew,” said the client I’d just finished photographing yesterday, as we stood in her office. “That makes so much more sense. I found you by googling for ‘body positive photography’ anyway — this is much more clear.” I’d just told her that I’m changing my website and brand, and she immediately picked up on…

I’m the Official Photographer for Camp Heal 2019
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I’m the Official Photographer for Camp Heal 2019

I’m the official photographer for Project HEAL’s Camp Heal 2019! Join us in Angeles National Forest outside Los Angeles this September to help heal your body image. In this video, I’m talking about eating disorder recovery and who has the “right” body for it, why I’m lending my skills to the camp, and my fave…

Dry Apron Panties: A Review and Interview with Creator CarolAnn Bauer (with Transcript)
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Dry Apron Panties: A Review and Interview with Creator CarolAnn Bauer (with Transcript)

***I’m giving away a free pair of Dry Apron Panties! See the video and transcript for details. Contest ends at midnight on Friday, May 31, 2019. You must comment over on Youtube to enter (not here on the blog).*** In a world where living in a fat body is barely discussed, taking care of a…

Eff Sh*t Up Friday with Dr. Melissa Bird (with Transcript)
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Eff Sh*t Up Friday with Dr. Melissa Bird (with Transcript)

What do boudoir photography, subscription boxes and stock photos have in common? What even is a stock photo? How does body liberation play into all this? In this video, I chat with the wonderful Dr. Melissa Bird about all this and more (with transcript).

Ask a Fat Creator: Sculptor and Artist Chrissy Brown
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Ask a Fat Creator: Sculptor and Artist Chrissy Brown

Chrissy Brown is an artist who works primarily in 3D, and as a fat, disabled, queer, femme she wants to make sure she and others like her feel welcomed to take up space in the world. Her subject is fat liberation and body positivity, and she’s trying to strip away all β€˜performance’ we, as fat…

Small Business Visuals: Thekla Richter, Author & Coach

Small Business Visuals: Thekla Richter, Author & Coach

Thekla Richter’s small business branding photography session was so much fun! The weather cooperated perfectly, which is rare for Seattle in November: a beautiful sunny day with air crisp enough to keep us from getting sweaty. Thekla (pronounced Tech-luh — I was dying to know, too) writes middle-grade fantasy books (ask her about the space…

Portrait and Boudoir Photography without Toxic Beauty Ideals: An Underpinning

Portrait and Boudoir Photography without Toxic Beauty Ideals: An Underpinning

I do still believe that there’s value in teaching people how to enter the walled city of acceptability, even if just for a day. But it’s the value of teaching self-defense to women who walk dark streets. It’s the value of teaching a left hook to a bullied child.

Body Positive Headshot & Professional Portrait Sessions | April 13

Headshots. Almost everyone needs them, and they’re not usually much fun to get. Let’s change it with a truly positive experience. Get the photos you need for your career or business β€” all in a friendly, cheerful and supportive environment that welcomes your body just the way it is. All genders, orientations, ethnicities, body sizes, levels of…

Huge Tracts of Land: The Lingerie, Bra and Panty Guide for Plus Sizes
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Huge Tracts of Land: The Lingerie, Bra and Panty Guide for Plus Sizes

“The truth is, the other person in your bed is just so happy that you want to have SEX with them that they aren’t focused on your imperfections. They are INTO you, and into the fact that you are into them sexually. Live out loud and let go of your insecurities, and that is when…

Wildest Dreams Session with Ms. D at Red Rock Canyon | Body-Positive Photographer in Seattle, WA
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Wildest Dreams Session with Ms. D at Red Rock Canyon | Body-Positive Photographer in Seattle, WA

This plus-size beauty queen and Nevada’s Red Rock Canyon = magic. It was 95 degrees at sunset, but luckily Ms. D is used to the heat and I had plenty of water with me, so we took lots of breaks and it worked out fine. Better than fine, in fact. She’d chosen a sparkling sequin…

Anxiety and Perfectionism: Is “Good Enough” the Solution?
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Anxiety and Perfectionism: Is “Good Enough” the Solution?

There’s probably a photo of eight-year-old Lindley in a dictionary somewhere next to the word “competitive.” Or possibly “overachiever.” Other than athletics, in which I had little interest, if it was a competition I was going to enter it. And win it. And the more competitions, the busier I was, the more intensely I could…

Holiday Boundary-Setting & Self Care for Fat Folks (15 Resources)
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Holiday Boundary-Setting & Self Care for Fat Folks (15 Resources)

You deserve to have a holiday season that’s happy, not a punishment for being you. For those of us who struggle at the holidays, here are some of the best resources on how to set boundaries, take care of ourselves, and know when to draw the line.

LISTEN: Lindley on the Fat Face Feelings Podcast (with Transcript)
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LISTEN: Lindley on the Fat Face Feelings Podcast (with Transcript)

It’s always a delight to talk with one of the Fat Faces, Eron, and this time we did it on the record! (Amanda is also a delight, but was absent that day, alas.) We dig deep into my entrepreneurial journey, why I chose to work with fat folks, and your official permission to take care…

Bodies in the Media and Why Representation Matters on Femtastic
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Bodies in the Media and Why Representation Matters on Femtastic

Katie Breen interviews Lindley Ashline, founder of stock photography website Representation Matters (now Body Liberation Stock). Lindley explains why it’s so important that we see representations of diverse bodies in the media, and how she uses her platform to create stock imagery featuring people in all types of bodies – large bodies, brown and black…

Introducing the Refer-a-Friend Program

Introducing the Refer-a-Friend Program

[parallax-scroll id=”3048″] Love my photography, but a session isn’t right for you right now? Share that love with your friends with the Body Liberation Photography Refer-a-Friend program. It’s the world’s simplest referral program. There’s nothing to sign up for and no codes to keep track of. Just share any Sweet Amaranth website page or social…

{review} The Womanizer Plus: Right for plus-size babes?
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{review} The Womanizer Plus: Right for plus-size babes?

In a nutshell: sexy, easy to use and great in one specific area Y’all, I’m reviewing a sex toy. Whoa. One of the most powerful aspects of boudoir photography is the journey I’ve been privileged to experience in my own relationship with my body. As you know, I’m a firm advocate for body acceptance and…

{body positive boudoir} You don’t have to smile to be sexy
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{body positive boudoir} You don’t have to smile to be sexy

Β  You don’t have to smile to be sexy. Or be sultry. No, seriously. Your natural expressions are what’s sexy. Some people are serious. Some people are giggly. Some people are both, or neither. And whichever comes naturally to you, without feeling like you’re “performing” sexiness, will be the perfect expression for you. At her…

{Body positive boudoir} Boudoir party at Fierce Love Yoga

{Body positive boudoir} Boudoir party at Fierce Love Yoga

  The boudoir party I hosted in coordination with Fierce Love Yoga was such a great experience! As far as I know, no one else has done an explicitly body and fat positive boudoir shoot like this before, so we’re breaking barriers, y’all. <3 Here’s the way I described the event, to refresh your memory:…

{Body positive portraits} Adventure session with Ms. G

{Body positive portraits} Adventure session with Ms. G

Β  One of the most wonderful things about a Sweet Amaranth adventure session is that since we have a full day, we get a chance to take photos in really amazing locations around the Pacific Northwest. For Ms. G’s adventure session, we headed out to Lake Cushman, a gorgeous lake in the Olympic Mountains that…

{Body positive portraits} Ms. H + Curves in Bloom, Feb. 24
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{Body positive portraits} Ms. H + Curves in Bloom, Feb. 24

I was delighted to have Hannah Schnabel join me for a portrait session for Representation Matters.me, my body positive and diverse stock photo site.Β Hannah is the mind behind plus-size clothing line Belle Ampleur. Hannah Schnabel has over a decade of experience designingΒ clothing for stage and film. She’s designed and built everything from corsets, to a…

The Big List of Portrait and Boudoir Ideas
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The Big List of Portrait and Boudoir Ideas

Here’s an ever-evolving list of boudoir and portrait session ideas to spark your inspiration. Some are serious, some are silly. Use them as a launching point for your imagination! See an idea you love that seems more appropriate for portraits (that you wish you could do for boudoir) or for boudoir (that you wish you…

{normalizing bodies} double chins
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{normalizing bodies} double chins

A woman in one of the plus-size groups on Facebook made a really good point the other day: We rarely see women with double chins represented in images. Many, many women have double chins. It’s a completely normal thing. But we hide them in photos. We stretch out our necks, raise our chins, tilt our…

{Body positive boudoir} Beautiful trans boudoir session with Ms. S

{Body positive boudoir} Beautiful trans boudoir session with Ms. S

I am so pleased to present images of my first transgender Siren, Ms. S! I’m honored to offer a safe, fun, accepting space where folks whose bodies are outside the mainstream can stretch their wings and showcase their beauty. We started outside to take advantage of some beautiful spring weather: We dubbed this “the Elrond…

A bit of holiday cheer with Ms. L Β» Seattle plus size boudoir photography

A bit of holiday cheer with Ms. L Β» Seattle plus size boudoir photography

Ms. L and I met earlier year, and in our two sessions together — four or five months apart — she’s just blossomed in the most amazing way. One of the best things about plus-size boudoir photography is that blossoming. Almost everyone is nervous when they come in, especially women on the larger end of plus…

{body positive boudoir} What do I get out of a boudoir session?

{body positive boudoir} What do I get out of a boudoir session?

Body-positive boudoir and portrait sessions are tons of fun. There’s the laughter, the silliness, the looking and feeling like the most gorgeous thing to hit this planet — it’s a pretty amazing experience. But what happens afterward? Yeah, everyone knows about digital photos — they’re great for sharing on Facebook and making physical prints from….

FAQ: Do you have a boudoir photography studio?

I don’t have a commercial studio space, actually. Most of my photography sessions are held at my home, Alcove House, in Renton, Washington. For many photographers, having a retail studio space is a major goal. For me, though, there are just so many advantages in using my home as my studio that I’ve never even…

3 ways to destress and relax before your boudoir photography session

3 ways to destress and relax before your boudoir photography session

Which of these situations sounds better? A. You rush into your boudoir session sweaty and stressed. That workout took longer than you expected, and then you need to return those library books before the fees started piling up. B. You stroll into your boudoir session happy and relaxed, a spring in your step and a…

{body positive} When what’s in the mirror doesn’t match what’s in your mind
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{body positive} When what’s in the mirror doesn’t match what’s in your mind

Today it’s my pleasure to feature a guest post by Tiana Dodson, a coach and friend who writes about “being fat and winning at life by forgoing the old school belief that you have to be thin to live well and be well.”  The images in this post are courtesy Sweet Amaranth. When was the last…

Is my boudoir photographer going to touch me? Is that okay?

Is my boudoir photographer going to touch me? Is that okay?

When you have some or all of your clothes off, it’s easy to feel a little vulnerable, and you might not expect to be touched by your boudoir photographer. What’s that about? Is it even necessary? Your boudoir photographer will need to touch you a little. It’s inevitable that a hair ends up out of…

7 accessories for styling your plus size boudoir session

7 accessories for styling your plus size boudoir session

Let’s be honest. There are few things in the world more fun than playing dress-up, and boudoir sessions are ALL ABOUT dressing up. And the best part of dressing up is rummaging through tulle and rhinestones and velvet to find the perfect accessories. Here are seven props and accessories available at the Sweet Amaranth studio…

Why I don’t Photoshop the life out of your skin

Why I don’t Photoshop the life out of your skin

I get a lot of questions about retouching and skin, so today I thought I’d explain my philosophy on retouching — especially regarding skin — and how I arrived there. Modern portrait and boudoir photography incorporate a startling amount of body alteration. So much of what makes up the story of our bodies gets removed:…