Ask a Fat Creator: Jaime Patterson
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Ask a Fat Creator: Jaime Patterson

Image description: Black and white photo of a Black woman with long dark hair, looking at the camera with a small smile. She has her hand in her hair leaning into her hand. She is wearing glasses and a light-colored knitted sweater. There is a teal banner across the image, reading “Ask a Fat Creator:…

Ask a Fat Creator: Danielle Gregori
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Ask a Fat Creator: Danielle Gregori

Image description: A fat white woman stands in a mowed field in front of green trees. She has long dark brown and gray hair in a ponytail and is wearing glasses, cropped green pants, and a t-shirt that says β€œBody Diversity” with a variety of cartoon dogs. She is looking to one side and smiling….

WATCH: Lindley on Fat Product Reviews with Chrystal Bougon (with Transcript)
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WATCH: Lindley on Fat Product Reviews with Chrystal Bougon (with Transcript)

Because I have my fat fingers in so many pies, this chat with Chrystal Bougon of Curvy Girl Lingerie and All Bodies Electrolysis touches on lots of topics! If you’ve ever wondered about whether you can set boundaries with a photographer or how a good photographer works with mobility limitations or anxiety, this is the…

Ask a Fat Creator: Lisa Daughters
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Ask a Fat Creator: Lisa Daughters

This is the Body Liberation Photos Ask a Fat Creator (and Allies) series, in which we find out more about the lives, work and breakfasts of all kinds of large-bodied and marginalized creators and their allies. Lisa Daughters (she/her) is a Licensed Professional Counselor, specializing in Expressive Arts Therapy. She has been counseling for 10…

LISTEN: Lindley on the Rising Whole Podcast (with Transcript)
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LISTEN: Lindley on the Rising Whole Podcast (with Transcript)

On this episode of the Rising Whole podcast, Prim Ormanovich and I talk about how coherency in your business comes from having an underlying ethical framework or cause, and how my own underlying framework led to me splintering my business into many separate parts — and then bringing it together again. The podcast is no…

Ask a Fat Creator: Vanessa Ferreira
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Ask a Fat Creator: Vanessa Ferreira

This is the Body Liberation Photos Ask a Fat Creator (and Allies) series, in which we find out more about the lives, work and breakfasts of all kinds of large-bodied and marginalized creators and their allies. Vanessa Chica is a NYC Educator, Writer, Poet, Playwright and Fat Activist. She has featured at various events such…

8 Body-Positive, Fat-Friendly and HAES-aligned Zines
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8 Body-Positive, Fat-Friendly and HAES-aligned Zines

Learn more about body acceptance, body positivity, fat acceptance, intuitive eating and health at every size (HAES) with these fat-positive zines! You might be thinking… what exactly is a zine?! A zine (pronounced ZEEN) is a self-published work of original or appropriated texts and images usually produced via a photocopier. Zines are great because they…

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The Fat Lady Sings: Lindley sings the Dew Fairy Aria

This was one of my most memorable recital songs! Not only is the composer’s name (Engelbert Humperdinck) fun to say, but playing the Dew Fairy in this scene was a delight. I will happily wear fairy wings any time. The Dew Fairy Aria is from the opera Hansel & Gretel, first performed in 1893 in…

Ask a Fat Ally: Dietitian Meghan Cichy
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Ask a Fat Ally: Dietitian Meghan Cichy

This is the Body Liberation Photos Ask a Fat Creator (and Allies) series, in which we find out more about the lives, work and breakfasts of all kinds of large-bodied and marginalized creators and their allies. Meghan (she/her) is a Registered Dietitian by training. She specializes in working with folks with eating disorders, disordered eating,…

In the Media: Lindley on Real Health Radio
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In the Media: Lindley on Real Health Radio

“But what I find so interesting about this whole conversation and about trolls in general is they’re so quick to put the onus on individuals. It could be really alleviating and lift all this fear – I guess except for the fear of change – but it really could alleviate a lot of fear to…

Ask a Fat Creator: Saya Collins of Art from the Heart
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Ask a Fat Creator: Saya Collins of Art from the Heart

June’s Ask a Fat Creator interview is with sculptor and illustrator Saya Collins. For Saya, sculpture is more than an art form. It is a connection to their ancestry, to history, and to the earth itself. It is an extension of their mind, imagination and dreams. “The pieces I create are not perfect. They take…

9 Foundational 101 Reads for Health at Every Size (HAES)
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9 Foundational 101 Reads for Health at Every Size (HAES)

In a time of Facebook groups, Instagram threads and blog posts, many of us first encounter Health at Every Size (or HAES for short) and pick up some of its principles in online discussions. But when you’re ready to dig deeper, where should you go first? There are a thousand articles and thousands more blog…

The Body Positive Maven: An Interview with Lindley Ashline
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The Body Positive Maven: An Interview with Lindley Ashline

Over at Releasing the Phoenix, I’m talking with Ashley Nestler about photography as a liberating force, the Body Love Box’s origins, PCOS and stigma, and how to increase your self-confidence.

In the Media: Lindley on Eat the Rules (with Transcript)
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In the Media: Lindley on Eat the Rules (with Transcript)

Eat the Rules (formerly Fearless Rebelle Radio) was at the top of my podcast speaking wishlist for years, and it was such an amazing opportunity to appear in episode 168 with Summer Innanen! In this episode, we chat about: My story of growing up without television and pop culture and how this shaped my body…

LISTEN: Lindley on the Fat Girl Finds Love Podcast (with Transcript)
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LISTEN: Lindley on the Fat Girl Finds Love Podcast (with Transcript)

On the Fat Girl Finds Love Podcast, I’m talking with Briana Cavanaugh about fategories, luck and privilege in relationships, finding a doctor you trust, and scars in photography. Give it a listen to learn more about my story as we celebrate the unique beauty of bodies that fall outside conventional “beauty” standards. Today we talked…

Ask a Body-Positive Creator: Illustrator and Artist Anni Winder
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Ask a Body-Positive Creator: Illustrator and Artist Anni Winder

Anni Jyn is here to create art that might make you feel good about yourself, be kind to others or hopefully make you do a little laugh if the situation calls for it! Tell me about you! What’s your name? What pronouns do you use? Where do you live? What do you like to eat…

Scripts for Allies: Please Clothe My Fat Friend!
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Scripts for Allies: Please Clothe My Fat Friend!

As we explore the concept of thin privilege and how it affects everyday life over on Instagram, one of the most common questions I receive is, “What am I supposed to do about it?” None of us are singlehandedly responsible for changing entire cultures and systems of oppression, but each of us can take small…

Ask a Fat Creator: Body-Positive Bath & Beauty Whiz Gloria Procella
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Ask a Fat Creator: Body-Positive Bath & Beauty Whiz Gloria Procella

Hi, I’m Gloria, or Glow! I’m one of the creators of Cranky Shop (formerly, Cranky Crafty Cat Ladies). I’m the chief soapmaker and bath bomb wizard, and I’m generally the public face of our operation. I live southeast of Seattle with my husband, tweenager, and lots of pets. When I’m not dreaming up new sudsy…

An acupuncture student practices taking the Chinese pulse of another woman. Both women seated at the large wooden table are Caucasian; both the student and volunteer are in their 30s. The low-key lighting and their comfortable positions indicate a casual environment. Lighting: low key, neutral colors, natural light, artificial light Environment: indoors, coffee shop, coffeehouse, cloudy, day, daytime, autumn, October, fall Themes: Chinese medicine, acupuncture, alternative medicine, holistic medicine, graduate students, practice, pulse diagnosis, experiments, cooperation, two women, plus size women Ethnicities, genders and abilities of note: Caucasian, female, woman, 30s, 40s Location: Washington State, Pacific Northwest, United States
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Good fatties in a pandemic

Hi friend, I’ll be honest. I’m grieving. For everyone ill with the coronavirus. For fat folks sick with fear over the weight stigma they know they’ll encounter if and when they catch it. For those who’ve lost their jobs and businesses. And for my beloved cat Tansy, who passed away a few days ago. I’m…

Wave to me next time you’re on the field, okay?
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Wave to me next time you’re on the field, okay?

I am probably the last person who should be making sports analogies, because I’m also probably the least sporty person on earth. I was pretty good at dodgeball as a kid, and I’m not terrible at Dance Dance Revolution, but as far as team sports? “Lulz,” as the cool kids are saying these days. But…

Ask a Fat Creator: Artist Shelby Bergen
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Ask a Fat Creator: Artist Shelby Bergen

Shelby Bergen is an illustrator and cat enthusiast from the suburbs outside of the Twin Cities. She loves using bright colors, patterns and shapes in her work, and loves making fun character designs. Shelby prides herself in keeping her work diverse, focusing on showcasing different types and sizes of bodies. When Shelby isn’t making art,…

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Maybe you just didn’t want to shimmer badly enough.

What would happen if paint became a Big Thing? In fact, what would happen if one specific paint brand became a Big Thing, to the exclusion of all else? What if that paint brand became so popular that you were expected to use it in every room of your house? To the point that visitors…

“Hold still. You deserve this.”
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“Hold still. You deserve this.”

Hi friend, what’s it like to go to the grocery store while thin? Let me tell you what it was like to go to the grocery store this week while fat. It’s having people glance your way and then look away quickly, as if having glimpsed something obscene or disgusting. It’s having a woman in…

The Fat Lady Sings: Lindley sings Bachianas Brasileiras no. 5
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The Fat Lady Sings: Lindley sings Bachianas Brasileiras no. 5

This lovely piece is one of a set of fusions of Baroque and Brazilian music by the Brazilian composer Heitor Villa-Lobos. (Thanks, Wikipedia) This isn’t a recent video, but I’m re-sharing it as a way of releasing old body shame. When this video was taken, I was bothered by the way my fat body moved…

March Body Liberation Book Club Pick: Fat, Pretty & Soon to Be Old
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March Body Liberation Book Club Pick: Fat, Pretty & Soon to Be Old

March’s pick for the Body Liberation Book Club is Fat, Pretty and Soon to be Old by Kimberly Dark! Join us on Thursday, March 26 at 7 pm for a fat-friendly hangout and book discussion. Newcomers are very welcome! Purchasing the book from this affiliate link helps me continue to offer free resources: https://amzn.to/2TDyJoQ About…

Ask a Fat Creator: Artist and Activist Kathryn Max
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Ask a Fat Creator: Artist and Activist Kathryn Max

2021 update: Kathryn says of herself, β€œShe’s queer now and getting a divorce! Thanks Fat liberation!!!!” Kathryn Max is a Body Liberation Artist and Activist living in Oakland CA. She credits making fat art with helping her cultivate a kind and compassionate relationship with her own body. Kathryn is currently working on her memoir β€œFat…

95+ Fat-Positive and HAES-Aligned Support Groups, Courses & Workshops Online and Around the World
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95+ Fat-Positive and HAES-Aligned Support Groups, Courses & Workshops Online and Around the World

Everywhere we go, we’re surrounded by diet culture, the cultural forces that cause us to feel bad about our bodies and want to shrink them into acceptability. Diet culture causes poor body image, encourages eating disorders and makes $71 billion in profit for the diet industry every year. More and more often, people are pushing…

You are freaking allowed.
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You are freaking allowed.

For those of us in larger bodies, it can feel like we’re hemmed in all around with barriers and gates and forms to be submitted in triplicate just to live our lives. To live in bodies this scrutizined and regulated and constantly criticized is to feel that we need permission to eat, to breathe, to…

The cruelty is the point.
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The cruelty is the point.

Cruelty is an inherent part of diet culture. Diet culture gives us a dichotomy: bodies are either good (thin) or bad (fat). In this framework, a “good” body is something that can and should always be the ultimate goal. Not only is a good body the only healthy, morally upright and worthy kind of body,…

The Fat Lady Sings: Lindley sings Handel’s Te cum principium
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The Fat Lady Sings: Lindley sings Handel’s Te cum principium

This is an oratorio piece from the Dixit Dominus, a psalm setting by George Frideric Handel (catalogued as HWV 232). It uses the Latin text of Psalm 110 (Vulgate 109), which begins with the words Dixit Dominus (“The Lord Said”). (Thanks, Wikipedia!) This isn’t a recent video, but I’m re-sharing it as a way of…

Ask a Fat Creator: Author Katy Lees
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Ask a Fat Creator: Author Katy Lees

Katy Lees is a writer and psychotherapist from the North East of England. They’ve written for Dirge Magazine, Do Some Damage, and Lockjaw. They’re currently writing a transgender and non-binary self-care guide that will be published by Jessica Kingsley Publishers. Tell me about you! What’s your name? What pronouns do you use? Where do you…

You are allowed to cut off contact
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You are allowed to cut off contact

Just in case you need a reminder today: Cutting off contact with toxic people, or setting a no-contact or minimal-contact boundary for yourself, is a perfectly valid thing to do. We have this cultural expectation that if you just find the right words and make your case just right, a toxic relative or friend will…

The Fat Lady Sings: Lindley sings Time to Say Goodbye/Con Te Partiro
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The Fat Lady Sings: Lindley sings Time to Say Goodbye/Con Te Partiro

This is of course the song with a famous rendition by Andrea Bocelli and Sarah Brightman. “Con te partirΓ²” was never part of an opera, but was an individual piece written by Francesco Sartori (music) and Lucio Quarantotto (lyrics). It was released first as a solo piece by Bocelli and then as a duet with…

Ask a Fat Creator: Artist Jiji Knight
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Ask a Fat Creator: Artist Jiji Knight

Jiji Knight is a lover of magic, ladies, and breakfast for dinner. Graphic designer by day and illustrator by night, she’s a champion of body positivity, uniter of the cute and macabre, and overall dedicates her body of work to women. She studied illustration at the Academy of Art in beautiful San Francisco and currently…

December Body Liberation Book Club Pick: Fat Girl
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December Body Liberation Book Club Pick: Fat Girl

December’s pick for the Body Liberation Book Club will be Fat Girl by Judith Moore! Join us on Thursday, December 26 (yes, the day after Christmas) at 7 pm (Jalisco restaurant, 12336 31st Ave NE, Seattle, WA 98125) for a fat-friendly hangout and book discussion. Newcomers are very welcome! About the Body Liberation Book Club…

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The Calendar! Body Positive Events Around the World

This calendar is provided as a public resource for the body positivity, fat acceptance, plus-size fashion, and Health at Every Size (HAES) communities. I’m not affiliated with any events except the ones in bold, and at this time I’m not compensated for any event listings. The calendar is current on hold due to so many…

Inclusive and Diverse Marketing in Yoga & Fitness Spaces: A NEDA and YBIC Roundtable Discussion (video with transcript)
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Inclusive and Diverse Marketing in Yoga & Fitness Spaces: A NEDA and YBIC Roundtable Discussion (video with transcript)

I was honored to recently be part of a roundtable series, a collaboration between the National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA) and Yoga & Body Image Coalition (YBIC), called Growing & Thriving Together: A Roundtable Series on Diversity, Inclusivity & Accessibility in Yoga and Fitness Spaces. The discussion for which I was a panelist focused on…

Fat Artists’ Open House & Overstock Sale December 7-8
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Fat Artists’ Open House & Overstock Sale December 7-8

Get an edge on your holiday shopping and support fat artists at the first annual at Artists’ Open House & Overstock Sale! We’ll have a range of body-positive and creative goods for you, including: THE BODY LOVE BOX: Overstock boxes from previous months, books, stickers, bookmarks, self-care items, zines, figurines, and art prints Body Liberation…

Ask a Fat Ally: Artist Theresa Baxter
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Ask a Fat Ally: Artist Theresa Baxter

Theresa is an illustrator and creative entrepreneur with a background in art therapy and psychology. She is passionate about the power of creative business and art and design as tools for radical paradigm shift. She believes that we can change ourselves and our world through representation. Tell me about you! What’s your name? What pronouns…

Ask a Fat Creator: Yoga Therapist and Artist Manager Krystal Thompson
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Ask a Fat Creator: Yoga Therapist and Artist Manager Krystal Thompson

Krystal Thompson of The Luscious Life helps people struggling with their relationship with their body and their relationship with food. Working as a Yoga Therapist over the past 9 years, she has been dedicated to educating, empowering and assisting individuals so that they can take an active role in their healing and wellness. Lately her…

Infinite Swim: Where to Find Swimsuits in Sizes 32+
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Infinite Swim: Where to Find Swimsuits in Sizes 32+

One of the best things about summer is water: swimming, splashing, wading, dancing, drinking, flavoring, floating, fishing, boating, or soaking in it! The larger your clothing size, though, the more challenging it can be to find a swimsuit you find comfortable or beautiful. For folks who wear clothing sizes larger than are generally carried at…

An open letter to allies, HAES providers, body image and body positivity activists, and influencers who live in small and medium-sized bodies. A fat woman in a bright pink dress is shown from the shoulders up, reaching high into the air in front of a magnolia tree. In the foreground, white text reads, An open letter to my allies.
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An open letter to my allies

Allies, HAES providers, body image and body positivity activists, and influencers who live in small and medium-sized bodies: Where are you when a superfat person posts a bikini photo and is rewarded with, not the accolades you receive for your vulnerability and bravery, but uniform disgust? Where are you when fat activists are exhausted at…

An open letter to fitness professionals
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An open letter to fitness professionals

Over on the Association for Size Diversity and Health (ASDAH) blog, I’m talking about Mary, a fictional fatty, and her experience in the fitness world. Recently I saw a comment from a fitness professional that got me thinking. She said that she wants to help people in bodies of all sizes get to the β€œhappy…

Ask a Fat Creator: Graphic Designer and Fat Activist Rachelle Abellar
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Ask a Fat Creator: Graphic Designer and Fat Activist Rachelle Abellar

Rachelle Abellar is a graphic designer, fat activist, and body liberation advocate. She is the founder of PNW Fattitude, a group that hosts events for people of size in the Pacific Northwest. She also runs Archive Six, a small press and zine distro that carries work centering indie art, social justice, feminism, WOC, intersectionality, fat…

The Body Love Box Supports Its 20th Marginalized Artist

The Body Love Box Supports Its 20th Marginalized Artist

For Immediate Release           August 1, 2019 Shelbey Osborne        [email protected] THE BODY LOVE BOX SUPPORTS ITS 20TH MARGINALIZED ARTIST Fat-Positive Subscription Box Supporting Marginalized Artists and Small Business Owners  SEATTLE, WASHINGTON –The Body Love Box is celebrating working with over 20 marginalized and small business owners since the…

{Guest Post} Glorious Fat People: My Gratitude for Finding Comfort in an Uncomfortable World
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{Guest Post} Glorious Fat People: My Gratitude for Finding Comfort in an Uncomfortable World

This is a guest post from Dawn Clark, who graciously allowed me to share her experience at the National Association for the Advancement of Fat Acceptance, or NAAFA. – Lindley I have been fat most of my life, and if there were one word to describe my fat life thus far, it would be “uncomfortable.”…

Review: Tatiana Gill’s Fat Positive Coloring Book
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Review: Tatiana Gill’s Fat Positive Coloring Book

Take a look with me at Tatiana Gill’s Fat Positive Coloring Book! I’ll let you in on a bit of background about the book itself and the original cover, plus give you a peek at what’s inside. Full disclosure: I was provided with this copy of the coloring book in exchange for the review. All…

I’m the Official Photographer for Camp Heal 2019
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I’m the Official Photographer for Camp Heal 2019

I’m the official photographer for Project HEAL’s Camp Heal 2019! Join us in Angeles National Forest outside Los Angeles this September to help heal your body image. In this video, I’m talking about eating disorder recovery and who has the “right” body for it, why I’m lending my skills to the camp, and my fave…