Body-positive business practices, part 5 | The Body Liberation Guide
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Body-positive business practices, part 5 | The Body Liberation Guide

Though I ended up catching the stomach flu* and having to rest and isolate for the last part of the retreat, our attendees had a fabulous time and it was such a satisfying experience. There really is no substitute for in-person fat community. (*confirmed by PCR testing that it wasn’t COVID)  Also, I’ve been featured in a…

Part 4 of body positive business practices | The Body Liberation Guide
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Part 4 of body positive business practices | The Body Liberation Guide

Since I first wrote “The word on the scale” and shared it with my Patreon supporters (and later in the Body Liberation Guide), Taylor Swift has updated her video to remove the couple of seconds showing the word on the scale (without public comment). Here’s an update, plus part 4 of our series on body-positive business…

A pale-skinned belly with a B-shaped crease at the belly button, with deep red flowers covering the pubic area.
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“Belly, companion, digester of snacks, you wobble when I laugh” | Seattle boudoir photography

“Belly, companion, digester of snacks, you wobble when I laugh, rise and fall as I breathe, rollick, tingle, give me signals when someone around me is a liar or a danger or a friend, the site of my hunger (my aliveness), receiver of rubs and kisses from mother and lovers, layer of warmth, inspirer of…

A fat woman of color's chin and hands are shown as she holds a menu with an illustrated boat in a restaurant. Overlaid is text with the title of the mini session.
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I’m talking about size inclusivity in business for TEDD WIND 2022

I just wrapped up development of my mini session for the TEDD WIND Inclusivity Conference! I’ll be talking about inclusive marketing on Oct. 22 at 1:30 pm Central time (CST). Just a couple of the topics we’ll cover: * Why be size-inclusive, anyway * What your public presence is telling potential clients * Auditing the…

I chat with Alissa Rumsey about size inclusivity in business
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I chat with Alissa Rumsey about size inclusivity in business

From @alissarumsey: Building inclusive and fat-friendly businesses: why is so important (for us, for our business, and for the collective) and some things to think about when it comes to being inclusive in your digital/online space. Loved this convo with @bodyliberationwithlindley, who shared so much of her wisdom along with some practical tips. Lindley will be…

Lizzo and the flute + why feedback is a gift | The Body Liberation Guide
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Lizzo and the flute + why feedback is a gift | The Body Liberation Guide

Getting called out sucks. Complaints suck. Trust me, I’ve been there. But it’s essential to listen to and absorb feedback if you want to improve in how you treat other people, especially people with less privilege than you. Also in this edition: Lizzo and the flute Terms to know Nutrition and anti-fatness Upcoming events October free…

About body privileges | The Body Liberation Guide
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About body privileges | The Body Liberation Guide

I’m white. I have hair that falls into gentle waves with little to no styling. I’m very fat, but the way I carry my weight makes me look smaller than I am. My skin is mostly clear. I had braces as a teen, so my teeth are mostly straight. I can fit into the top…

Do you need to be an expert to be inclusive? | The Body Liberation Guide
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Do you need to be an expert to be inclusive? | The Body Liberation Guide

If you’ve been on the internet for a hot minute, you’ve probably heard of body positivity. The movement has some high-profile promoters — and a valuable outlook on the worth and beauty of all bodies. What does body positivity have to do with your business? Everything. By incorporating its principles into your business, you can…

Portrait & Boudoir FAQ: What to Expect at Your Session | Pacific Northwest body-positive photography

Portrait & Boudoir FAQ: What to Expect at Your Session | Pacific Northwest body-positive photography

One of the best ways I’ve found to help clients be as relaxed and confident as possible for photo sessions is to provide lots of information in advance on what to wear, bring and expect. Here’s an excerpt from the guide I provide all my clients on what to expect at their Seattle body-positive portrait,…

Your fat activism guide to The Whale | The Body Liberation Guide
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Your fat activism guide to The Whale | The Body Liberation Guide

Hi friend, The big news in the fat-related world this week is Brendan Fraser’s hideously fatphobic new movie called The Whale. Since there’s been so much commentary, rather than including it in The Conversation section, I’ve given it its own list down in the Quick Resources.

A fat white woman with shoulder-length brown hair throws her arms out and looks up to the sky in a field. She is wearing a white shirt, black pants and a green jacket.

{the daily fat} You deserve joy! | Photography for plus size people in Seattle, WA

Come join us in the Body Liberation Blanket Fort, my safer space for fat folks and allies. Fat people are centered here, but everyone is welcome. It’s a 24/7 hangout on Discord with weekly journaling topics, a brave learning space and more.

Portrait & Boudoir FAQ: Hair & Makeup for Your Session | Pacific Northwest body-positive photography

Portrait & Boudoir FAQ: Hair & Makeup for Your Session | Pacific Northwest body-positive photography

Should you get your hair and makeup done for your session? That depends on you. My clients come to me with full faces of makeup, clean bare skin, and everything in between. There’s no wrong answer, so go with what feels most comfortable to you. Since not everyone wants makeup/hair services, they’re not included in…

Body Liberation Stock is accepting contributors!

Body Liberation Stock is accepting contributors!

Body Liberation Stock is accepting contributors! Spread some love, make the world a better place — and get paid to do it. Unlike most of the mainstream stock image sites, we’ve got motives beyond profit margin, which means caring about contributors. We want you to make a living wage too, so you get a stunning…

Portrait & Boudoir FAQ: Session Basics | Pacific Northwest body-positive photography

Portrait & Boudoir FAQ: Session Basics | Pacific Northwest body-positive photography

I practice a completely judgment-free photography approach that views every body with honesty, compassion and respect. This isn’t your mainstream photography experience: There’s no extreme posing to make your body look unlike its natural form, no heavy retouching, no shame around flyaway hair or fat rolls. This is a body-safe and LGBTQIAP+-affirming place for you…

This week’s journaling and brave learning topics in the Body Liberation Blanket Fort

This week’s journaling and brave learning topics in the Body Liberation Blanket Fort

Over in the Blanket Fort, we’re journaling about showing up in the world without body shame. The Body Liberation Blanket Fort is my closed, diet-talk-free community. It’s open to all, and we center fat folks and other marginalized groups. All you need to get access is to support my work at any level, starting at…

A screenshot of Laura and Lindley talking on video about the Exhale Retreat, a body-positive PNW retreat outside Seattle, WA.

Instant Replay: Instagram Live Discussion on Exhale Retreat

Laura @radicalbodylove and I went live to talk about the upcoming Exhale Retreat! We’re dishing on the venue, what to expect from the yoga portion of the retreat, what to expect from me, accessibility, and ways we’re designing the experience to leave you rested and uplifted rather than drained and needing a vacation from your vacation.

Two larger-bodied white people with short dark hair, glasses and dresses stand outside in front of a forest and boulders. They're playing with leaf moustaches and laughing.

Getting silly at sessions | Seattle body-positive portrait photographer

This mother and adult child came to me for portrait and boudoir sessions, respectively, a few weeks ago and we just had the biggest blast. We laughed while I photographed these, I laughed as I edited them and we all howled as we looked them during the reveal session. One of the best things about…

Size contrition, part 3: Fuck flattering
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Size contrition, part 3: Fuck flattering

As we consider the concept of size contrition, let’s look at the “fuck flattering” trend that’s been sweeping the body positivity movement. On its face, “fuck flattering” is a rejection of size contrition and the forbearance it can generate. There’s a great article by Alysse D’alessandro at The Body is Not An Apology that talks…

Fat-Positive Fine Art Print: Nature Gave Me Wings
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Fat-Positive Fine Art Print: Nature Gave Me Wings

Nature gave me wings. Who are you to bid me hide them? The woman in this photograph has glorious wings on her arms that she lifts towards the ceiling, looking out a window into a large covered open space, in this black-and-white-photograph. She is fat, has long hair pinned into a bun and is wearing…

Featured Body Liberation Stock contributor: Kathleen Marshall

Featured Body Liberation Stock contributor: Kathleen Marshall

Meet Kathleen Marshall, one of Body Liberation Stock’s contributors! Here’s how Kathleen describes herself: Kathleen Marshall is a San Francisco Bay Area native, transplanted to Reno, Nevada where she lives with her husband, dogs, parrot and chickens. A former theatrical costumer, she currently teaches middle school. She loves fairy tale illustration of the Golden Era…

A tan upholstered chair with wooden arms, with a tape measure stretched across it at Alderbrook Resort where the Exhale fat-positive retreat will be held.

A look at accessibility for the PNW body-positive Exhale Retreat

While in the planning stage for the Exhale Retreat, Laura and I did a TON of research to make sure the venue we chose was the best possible for fat folks.  We chose Alderbrook Resort because it had the best combination of location and accessibility. But first, I went out in person, walked through every…