August 18: Fat Liberation in Parenting with Sarah Thunell
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August 18: Fat Liberation in Parenting with Sarah Thunell

On August 18, parent coach Sarah Thunell will be joining us in the Body Liberation Blanket Fort to talk about body lib principles as they apply to children and parenting: Join us for about an hour at 4 pm Eastern/3 pm Central/1 pm Pacific on August 18. It’ll also be recorded for members to enjoy…

{Event} Body Liberation Stock at WIND Spring Symposium

{Event} Body Liberation Stock at WIND Spring Symposium

What a busy week! In addition to my Seattle Erotic Art Festival art tour on Friday night (see yesterday’s post), I’ll be representing Body Liberation Stock atΒ @weightinclusivenutrition‘s Spring Symposium Wednesday, Thursday and Friday. If you’re heading to the virtual symposium, check out my booth in the exhibitor area and enter to win $25 in stock…

Lindley, a fat white woman wearing glasses and a casual outfit, holds a camera and smiles at the camera in window light.

{Events} Aspirational Erotic: Body Size, Shame and Aesthetics

I’ll be giving an art tour at the Seattle Erotic Art Festival this Friday, April 26 at 8:30 pm! Come hang out with me for an hour for: Aspirational Erotic: Body Size, Shame and Aesthetics Join photographer and body liberation activist Lindley Ashline to explore the origins and history of body image and weight stigma,…

Upcoming body-positive events (online)
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Upcoming body-positive events (online)

We’ve got a full schedule coming up! Here’s what’s going on in the next couple of months. My Origins of the Feelings workshop is on January 20, and there are fresh new events in the Body Liberation Blanket Fort including a movie night and body doubling in addition to everyday community. Find all the details…

The Origins of the Feelings Workshop is on January 20
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The Origins of the Feelings Workshop is on January 20

I hope you had a lovely second half of December. I spent mine making big plans for 2024, hanging out on Zoom/the phone with long-distance friends and family, and taking a few real, true days off. One of the things that’s important to me for the year we’ve just begun is holding more events and…

I’m a SeekHer mentor for 2024! | body inclusive business
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I’m a SeekHer mentor for 2024! | body inclusive business

I’m excited to be a part of this program and be a mentor! Check out SeekHer’s feed and links for more info. From SeekHer: In honor of #BodyAcceptanceWeek, we are excited to announce the launch of the newest SeekHer Scholars program – β€˜Our Bodies Belong’!⁠⁠In recent years, more people have experienced a surge in eating…

End-of-summer giveaway stream with me + Ali Thompson!

End-of-summer giveaway stream with me + Ali Thompson!

If you’re not yet familiar withΒ Ali Thompson, you’re in for a treat. Ali, who goes by @artists_ali onΒ TwitterΒ andΒ Twitch, is a phenomenal fat activist and one of the foremost ranters of my acquaintance.Β  I like letting people describe themselves in their own words, so here’s Ali’s:Β  Creator of Ok2BeFat πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ Twitch AffiliateπŸ•Ή They/She DemigirlπŸ’„ Fat Activist…

A group of fat folks smiling and joyfully waving their arms in the air. They're sitting or standing around a picnic table in front of calm water, boats and low hills in the distance under a gray sky.

First look: the Exhale Retreat | PNW body-positive photography

Our crew and Radical Body Love at the Exhale Retreat! As I get ready to send out a little surprise to everyone in the mail, I’m thinking about every single person who attended and the magic we created over those few days. Subscribe to my Body Liberation Guide and get first notice on future events:

Start making peace with your photos on December 7

Start making peace with your photos on December 7

Join me for my workshop Making Peace with Your Photos on December 7! We’ll explore: Β» The history and systems that determine how we feel about our bodies Β» How self-portraits allow us to reclaim our images Β» The basics of taking good-quality smartphone selfies Β» 3 powerful portrait and boudoir poses Β» How to…

A fat woman of color's chin and hands are shown as she holds a menu with an illustrated boat in a restaurant. Overlaid is text with the title of the mini session.
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I’m talking about size inclusivity in business for TEDD WIND 2022

I just wrapped up development of my mini session for the TEDD WIND Inclusivity Conference! I’ll be talking about inclusive marketing on Oct. 22 at 1:30 pm Central time (CST). Just a couple of the topics we’ll cover: * Why be size-inclusive, anyway * What your public presence is telling potential clients * Auditing the…

I chat with Alissa Rumsey about size inclusivity in business
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I chat with Alissa Rumsey about size inclusivity in business

From @alissarumsey: Building inclusive and fat-friendly businesses: why is so important (for us, for our business, and for the collective) and some things to think about when it comes to being inclusive in your digital/online space. Loved this convo with @bodyliberationwithlindley, who shared so much of her wisdom along with some practical tips. Lindley will be…

A screenshot of Laura and Lindley talking on video about the Exhale Retreat, a body-positive PNW retreat outside Seattle, WA.

Instant Replay: Instagram Live Discussion on Exhale Retreat

LauraΒ @radicalbodyloveΒ and I went live to talk about the upcoming Exhale Retreat! We’re dishing on the venue, what to expect from the yoga portion of the retreat, what to expect from me, accessibility, and ways we’re designing the experience to leave you rested and uplifted rather than drained and needing a vacation from your vacation.

A tan upholstered chair with wooden arms, with a tape measure stretched across it at Alderbrook Resort where the Exhale fat-positive retreat will be held.

A look at accessibility for the PNW body-positive Exhale Retreat

While in the planning stage for the Exhale Retreat, Laura and I did a TON of research to make sure the venue we chose was the best possible for fat folks.Β  We chose Alderbrook Resort because it had the best combination of location and accessibility. But first, I went out in person, walked through every…

Exhale Retreat mini sessions opening in October

Exhale Retreat mini sessions opening in October

Starting in September, I’m opening up five special spots for mini portrait and boudoir sessions at this November’s Exhale Retreat, exclusively for retreat attendees. The price is $199 and you’ll receive: Β» A 30-minute mini session with me at the retreat (your choice of boudoir or portraits) Β» Zoom reveal session after the retreat (to…

A rustic Pacific Northwest hotel shown at dusk, with lots of wood and glass.

Meet us at Alderbrook Hotel for the fat-friendly Exhale Retreat

Laura and I spent ages researching venues for the Exhale Retreat, and we’re so excited with the venue we found, Alderbrook Resort on Washington state’s lovely Hood Canal, part of Puget Sound. No hotel offers perfect lodging for fat and superfat guests, but we think this is as close as it gets. I even went…

A background of autumn leaves with the name of the Exhale Pacific Northwest body positive and fat positive retreat and Laura and Lindley's illustrated profile images.
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Fat friend, you deserve connection, rest, and ease.

We know how heavy and exhausting existing in this world can be. We all carry the weight of holding boundaries, managing others’ entitlement, navigating systems of oppression, and all the other burdens fat folks are made to hold on a daily basis. We are tired! In a culture that has commodified self-care down to bubble…

May 18: Tune in to Lindley at Every BODY Belongs in Bozeman

May 18: Tune in to Lindley at Every BODY Belongs in Bozeman

On May 18 (this Wednesday), I’m talking about building size-inclusive businessesΒ for Everybody Belongs in Bozeman (Montana), though you don’t have to be in Montana to tune in.Β  The β€œEvery BODY Belongs in Bozeman” campaign is a week-long community initiative and fundraiser, taking place May 15-21st, 2022, during Mental Health Awareness month.Β  The week will include…

May 19: Fat Girls Hiking + Lindley at Third Place Books

May 19: Fat Girls Hiking + Lindley at Third Place Books

This Thursday, May 19, I’ll be at Third Place Books (masked) with Summer Michaud-Skog in Lake Forest Park, just north of Seattle, WA.Β Β  I’m excited to be stepping in for this free event to ask Summer some questions about her brand-new book Fat Girls Hiking: An Inclusive Guide to Getting Outdoors at Any Size or…

Introduction to Discord Workshop – November 28
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Introduction to Discord Workshop – November 28

Learn how to use a powerful place for community! In this friendly and free basic workshop, learn how to use Discord, a popular Facebook alternative. πŸ—“οΈ November 28, 2021 ⏱️ 8 pm Eastern/7 CST/6 MST/5 PST πŸ’Έ Free (donations accepted) We’ll cover: Β» What is Discord? Β» How is Discord different from Facebook, Twitter or…

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The Fat Lady Sings: Die Lotosblume and Mondnacht

I prepared these two German pieces for an audition and they’re both so floating and lovely!  “Die Lotosblume” (“The Lotus Flower”) is a poem written by Heinrich Heine, and published in his Buch der Lieder (The Book of Songs, 1827). Set to music by Robert Schumann in 1840, this Lied is part of Schumann’s Myrthen…

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The Fat Lady Sings: Lindley sings the Dew Fairy Aria

This was one of my most memorable recital songs! Not only is the composer’s name (Engelbert Humperdinck) fun to say, but playing the Dew Fairy in this scene was a delight. I will happily wear fairy wings any time. The Dew Fairy Aria is from the opera Hansel & Gretel, first performed in 1893 in…

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The Fat Lady Sings: Lindley sings Quanta Qualia by Patrick Hawes

Lindley Ashline and Ann Duweke singing Patrick Hawes’ “Quanta Qualia” at the Hope for Japan Concert, November 19, 2011. I fell in love with Hayley Westenra’s rendition of this piece, and from there discovered all of Hawes’ mesmerizing music. It was such a joy to be able to perform Quantia Qualia. This isn’t a recent…

Camp Heal Highlights 3: Eating Disorder Recovery Event Photography in Los Angeles, CA
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Camp Heal Highlights 3: Eating Disorder Recovery Event Photography in Los Angeles, CA

Some events are just events. Some events are transformative for everyone involved, and Camp Heal was one of the latter. Around a hundred people gathered in Angeles National Forest for three days to explore, laugh, cry, improve their body image, be vulnerable, move forward in recovery from eating disorders, and enjoy a body-safe camp experience….

The Fat Lady Sings: Lindley sings Bachianas Brasileiras no. 5
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The Fat Lady Sings: Lindley sings Bachianas Brasileiras no. 5

This lovely piece is one of a set of fusions of Baroque and Brazilian music by the Brazilian composer Heitor Villa-Lobos. (Thanks, Wikipedia) This isn’t a recent video, but I’m re-sharing it as a way of releasing old body shame. When this video was taken, I was bothered by the way my fat body moved…

March Body Liberation Book Club Pick: Fat, Pretty & Soon to Be Old
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March Body Liberation Book Club Pick: Fat, Pretty & Soon to Be Old

March’s pick for the Body Liberation Book Club is Fat, Pretty and Soon to be Old by Kimberly Dark! Join us on Thursday, March 26 at 7 pm for a fat-friendly hangout and book discussion. Newcomers are very welcome! Purchasing the book from this affiliate link helps me continue to offer free resources: https://amzn.to/2TDyJoQ About…

Camp Heal Highlights 2: Eating Disorder Recovery Event Photography in Los Angeles, CA
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Camp Heal Highlights 2: Eating Disorder Recovery Event Photography in Los Angeles, CA

Some events are just events. Some events are transformative for everyone involved, and Camp Heal was one of the latter. Around a hundred people gathered in Angeles National Forest for three days to explore, laugh, cry, improve their body image, be vulnerable, move forward in recovery from eating disorders, and enjoy a body-safe camp experience….

95+ Fat-Positive and HAES-Aligned Support Groups, Courses & Workshops Online and Around the World
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95+ Fat-Positive and HAES-Aligned Support Groups, Courses & Workshops Online and Around the World

Everywhere we go, we’re surrounded by diet culture, the cultural forces that cause us to feel bad about our bodies and want to shrink them into acceptability. Diet culture causes poor body image, encourages eating disorders and makes $71 billion in profit for the diet industry every year. More and more often, people are pushing…

The Fat Lady Sings: Lindley sings Handel’s Te cum principium
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The Fat Lady Sings: Lindley sings Handel’s Te cum principium

This is an oratorio piece from the Dixit Dominus, a psalm setting by George Frideric Handel (catalogued as HWV 232). It uses the Latin text of Psalm 110 (Vulgate 109), which begins with the words Dixit Dominus (“The Lord Said”). (Thanks, Wikipedia!) This isn’t a recent video, but I’m re-sharing it as a way of…

Camp Heal for Project HEAL: Eating Disorder Recovery Event Photography in Los Angeles, CA
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Camp Heal for Project HEAL: Eating Disorder Recovery Event Photography in Los Angeles, CA

Some events are just events. Some events are transformative for everyone involved, and Camp Heal was one of the latter. Around a hundred people gathered in Angeles National Forest for three days to explore, laugh, cry, improve their body image, be vulnerable, move forward in recovery from eating disorders, and enjoy a body-safe camp experience….

The Fat Lady Sings: Lindley sings Time to Say Goodbye/Con Te Partiro
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The Fat Lady Sings: Lindley sings Time to Say Goodbye/Con Te Partiro

This is of course the song with a famous rendition by Andrea Bocelli and Sarah Brightman. “Con te partirΓ²” was never part of an opera, but was an individual piece written by Francesco Sartori (music) and Lucio Quarantotto (lyrics). It was released first as a solo piece by Bocelli and then as a duet with…

December Body Liberation Book Club Pick: Fat Girl
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December Body Liberation Book Club Pick: Fat Girl

December’s pick for the Body Liberation Book Club will be Fat Girl by Judith Moore! Join us on Thursday, December 26 (yes, the day after Christmas) at 7 pm (Jalisco restaurant, 12336 31st Ave NE, Seattle, WA 98125) for a fat-friendly hangout and book discussion. Newcomers are very welcome! About the Body Liberation Book Club…

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The Calendar! Body Positive Events Around the World

This calendar is provided as a public resource for the body positivity, fat acceptance, plus-size fashion, and Health at Every Size (HAES) communities. I’m not affiliated with any events except the ones in bold, and at this time I’m not compensated for any event listings. The calendar is current on hold due to so many…

Inclusive and Diverse Marketing in Yoga & Fitness Spaces: A NEDA and YBIC Roundtable Discussion (video with transcript)
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Inclusive and Diverse Marketing in Yoga & Fitness Spaces: A NEDA and YBIC Roundtable Discussion (video with transcript)

I was honored to recently be part of a roundtable series, a collaboration between the National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA) and Yoga & Body Image Coalition (YBIC), called Growing & Thriving Together: A Roundtable Series on Diversity, Inclusivity & Accessibility in Yoga and Fitness Spaces. The discussion for which I was a panelist focused on…

Fat Artists’ Open House & Overstock Sale December 7-8
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Fat Artists’ Open House & Overstock Sale December 7-8

Get an edge on your holiday shopping and support fat artists at the first annual at Artists’ Open House & Overstock Sale! We’ll have a range of body-positive and creative goods for you, including: THE BODY LOVE BOX: Overstock boxes from previous months, books, stickers, bookmarks, self-care items, zines, figurines, and art prints Body Liberation…

November Body Liberation Book Club Pick: Heavy
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November Body Liberation Book Club Pick: Heavy

November’s pick for the Body Liberation Book Club will be Heavy by Kiese Laymon! Join us on Friday, November 29 at 7 pm (Amante Pizza on Roosevelt Way in Seattle) for a fat-friendly hangout and book discussion. Newcomers are very welcome! Content note: Heavy contains potentially difficult material, including descriptions of sexual abuse. Reading this…

I’m the Official Photographer for Camp Heal 2019
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I’m the Official Photographer for Camp Heal 2019

I’m the official photographer for Project HEAL’s Camp Heal 2019! Join us in Angeles National Forest outside Los Angeles this September to help heal your body image. In this video, I’m talking about eating disorder recovery and who has the “right” body for it, why I’m lending my skills to the camp, and my fave…

{Body positive portraits} Ms. H + Curves in Bloom, Feb. 24
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{Body positive portraits} Ms. H + Curves in Bloom, Feb. 24

I was delighted to have Hannah Schnabel join me for a portrait session for Representation Matters.me, my body positive and diverse stock photo site.Β Hannah is the mind behind plus-size clothing line Belle Ampleur. Hannah Schnabel has over a decade of experience designingΒ clothing for stage and film. She’s designed and built everything from corsets, to a…