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Next week's schedule for the Body Liberation Blanket Fort, a body-positive safer space

Upcoming events in the Body Liberation Blanket Fort

Here’s what’s coming up over in the Blanket Fort in the next couple of weeks. The Body Liberation Blanket Fort is my closed, diet-talk-free community for Patreon supporters on Discord. People of all sizes are welcome, and we center fat folks and other marginalized groups. What the Fort is: 🌲 A community space open to…

8 Books and Resources on Weight, Faith and Spirituality
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8 Books and Resources on Weight, Faith and Spirituality

β€œThere is an Indian proverb that says that everyone is a house with four rooms, a physical, a mental, an emotional, and a spiritual. Most of us tend to live in one room most of the time but unless we go into every room every day, even if only to keep it aired, we are…

Then what am I supposed to talk about? | The Body Liberation Guide
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Then what am I supposed to talk about? | The Body Liberation Guide

I first wrote this piece in November 2020, but it unfortunately hasn’t lost any of its relevance, as Donald Trump continues to be in the news. (For folks outside the U.S., feel free to swap in any larger-bodied politician of relevance.) A perennial problem is cropping up yet again: the fatphobia of the American left….

The one with the broken-heart bullets | The Body Liberation Guide
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The one with the broken-heart bullets | The Body Liberation Guide

Once a friend of mine observed that in their daily life, they just felt like they didn’t see many fat people at all. And it’s true: fat people are often missing from public life, especially very fat people. Why might that be? BMI is bull, but let’s use the master’s tool for a moment to…

How to use the Southwest customer of size policy | The Body Liberation Guide
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How to use the Southwest customer of size policy | The Body Liberation Guide

Last week, I talked about aΒ big negativeΒ of the trip I just took. This week, though, I want to share a big positive: Southwest Airlines’ customer of size policy.Β  Southwest is the only American airline that makes an actual effort to be good to fat people. They weren’t always this way; in fact, they used to…

The plus-size guide to period panties | The Body Liberation Guide
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The plus-size guide to period panties | The Body Liberation Guide

Maybe you remember the advent of (mainstream anyway) period panties from a few years back? For a long time, there were no options to speak of for fat bodies, but no more! With the help of my brilliant assistant Kit, at the link below are nine options to choose from, carrying a range of sizes…

An equalizer graphic, a thumbnail photo of Lindley and an audio excerpt from the podcast.
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Race, Weight and Oppression: Lindley on the Mindful Miri Podcast

It was a pleasure to appear on the Mindful Miri podcast! In this episode, we discuss issues of race, weight, and systems of oppression. Other themes: Β» Embracing our true selves Β» #bodypositivity for larger bodies Β» How systems are not built for all sizes Β» weightstigma as an offshoot of #racism Transcript Excerpt “It’s…

It feels like a personal attack | The Body Liberation Guide
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It feels like a personal attack | The Body Liberation Guide

It’s an excerpt week! First, a little hand update: I’m seeing some minor improvements in my De Quervain’s tendonitis after having a steroid shot in the wrist a few weeks ago. I’m still being cautious with booking photography clients, but I have a few people booked starting in mid-April and that should be okay. Hmm….

A fat woman wearing red panties poses to the side; the text reads "The Plus-Size Guide to Period Panties"
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The Plus-Size Guide to Period Panties

Maybe you remember the advent of (mainstream anyway) period panties from a few years back? For a long time, there were no options to speak of for fat bodies, but no more! Here are nine options to choose from, carrying a range of sizes up to a U.S. 48W. In case you’re wondering, period panties…

Your body image is not like my body image. | The Body Liberation Guide
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Your body image is not like my body image. | The Body Liberation Guide

This week on Patreon, I’m launching the Body Liberation Guide+, a patron-only supplement to the free public Body Liberation Guide newsletter (this email!) I send out every week. Here’s what you can expect in the BLG+:  More of The Conversation and event updates Handy links to this week’s supporter-only updates Journal prompts and discussion topics from the Body Liberation…

A neatly self-solving problem | The Body Liberation Guide
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A neatly self-solving problem | The Body Liberation Guide

If you’ve been a subscriber for a bit, you know I produced anΒ entireΒ guideΒ to that awful fatphobic movie The Whale.Β Β  I’m not a pop culture kind of person and I don’t watch movies (due to my neurodivergence making it difficult), so I’d be perfectly happy never to think about that movie again. But with awards season…

This? Is not that. | The Body Liberation Guide
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This? Is not that. | The Body Liberation Guide

Here’s one simple action you can take to help end discrimination against fat bodies this week: Stop appropriating the experiences and oppression of people who are fatter than you.Β  If you live in a body that is of average size (the average American woman wears a size 14-18) or a bit larger (what some folks…

On sticking your neck out. | The Body Liberation Guide
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On sticking your neck out. | The Body Liberation Guide

Here’s one simple action you can take to help end discrimination against fat bodies this week: Stick your neck out. Quite often these days, thin (usually white) folks feel the need to message me and tell me about how they were going to speak up about this harmful action or that piece of fragility, but…

Why aren’t we just celebrating?  | The Body Liberation Guide
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Why aren’t we just celebrating? | The Body Liberation Guide

It’s a privilege to focus on the gains of body positivity when fat people are still left out. One of the most common pieces of pushback I see against fat acceptance and the need to represent fat and very fat people is, “Why are you so negative? Can’t we all just celebrate all the progress…

Let me tell you what I would do | The Body Liberation Guide
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Let me tell you what I would do | The Body Liberation Guide

Often when I post about the way I as a very fat person am treated, I’ll get responses along the lines of, well, you just have to be confident and stand up for yourself and people won’t treat you like that. Or, here’s what I would do in that situation (insert behavior that’s very aggressive,…

New brave learning topics + body doubling Mondays

New brave learning topics + body doubling Mondays

Hi folks, I have some Body Liberation Blanket Fort updates for you! The Blanket Fort is my closed, friendly and body-safe chat community. All patrons are welcome to join. Since its creation in October 2021, the Blanket Fort has been a wild success as far as I’m concerned. People have joined, been welcomed, shared their…

You weren’t born with this | The Body Liberation Guide
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You weren’t born with this | The Body Liberation Guide

If you’ve been around here for any length of time, you know I talk a lot about anti-fatness, but I’m including a content warning today specifically for what I’m going to link to for its extremity. I had planned to send this letter to you today anyway, but coming across this video from a thin…

The Body Liberation Blanket Fort

The Body Liberation Blanket Fort

A sanctuary for you and your one precious body The Body Liberation Blanket Fort is my diet-talk-free, fat-centered and thriving community for people of all sizes. We do 24/7 text chat as well as regular events like movie nights and hangouts. With over 200 members from across the U.S., Europe and Australia, it’s a thriving…

Oppression and the Body: Roots, Resistance, and Resolutions

Oppression and the Body: Roots, Resistance, and Resolutions

A timely anthology that explores power, privilege, and oppression and their relationship to marginalized bodies Asserting that the body is the main site of oppression in Western society, the contributors to this pioneering volume explore the complex issue of embodiment and how it relates to social inclusion and marginalization. In a culture where bodies of…

Goddess in the Machine

Goddess in the Machine

Author: Johnson Lora Beth Format: Kindle eBook Package Dimensions: 0x0x0 Number Of Pages: 397 Release Date: 30-06-2020 Details: Andra wakes up from a cryogenic sleep 1,000 years later than she was supposed to, forcing her to team up with an exiled prince to navigate an unfamiliar planet in this smart, thrilling sci-fi adventure, perfect for…

Francis Discovers Possible

Francis Discovers Possible

Author: Latimer Ashlee Format: Picture Book Package Dimensions: 15x263x465 Number Of Pages: 32 Release Date: 03-05-2022 Details: Review “Full of heart and candor, Francis teaches us that loving your body isn’t perfect or easy, but it’s always worth it.”―Julie Murphy, New York Times bestselling author of DUMPLIN’ β€œA beautiful picture book about self-acceptance and finding…

They don’t make plus size spacesuits

They don’t make plus size spacesuits

Author: Thompson Ali Edition: 1 Format: Kindle eBook Package Dimensions: 0x0x0 Number Of Pages: 40 Release Date: 28-06-2019 Details: β€œThey don’t make plus size spacesuits” is a sci-fi short story collection, featuring an introductory essay. It is written by long-time fat activist, Ali Thompson of Ok2BeFat. This book is a incandescent cry from the heart,…

The Renaissance of Gwen Hathaway

The Renaissance of Gwen Hathaway

Author: Schumacher Ashley Package Dimensions: 25x210x454 Number Of Pages: 320 Release Date: 14-03-2023 Details: About the Author Ashley Schumacher is the author of Amelia Unabridged and Full Flight and has a degree in creative writing from the University of North Texas. When she’s not reading or writing, she’s either singing Disney songs, finding new and…

SONGMICS Bamboo Shoe Bench, 2-Tier Shoe Rack, Stable Shoe Organizer for Entryway, Living Room, Bench Seat Holds Up to 330 lb, 11.4 x 28 x 19.3 Inches, Natural and Gray ULBS604N01

SONGMICS Bamboo Shoe Bench, 2-Tier Shoe Rack, Stable Shoe Organizer for Entryway, Living Room, Bench Seat Holds Up to 330 lb, 11.4 x 28 x 19.3 Inches, Natural and Gray ULBS604N01

Brand: SONGMICS Color: Natural + Gray Features: [Sit Comfortably] Forget about the hard, stone-like stools and try this comfortable shoe bench! It comes with 1” thick padding to ensure enjoyable sitting while you change shoes [It Has the Strength] Connected by 2-in-1 screws, this bamboo bench offers great stability and a high load capacity (max….

From my lips to your ears | The Body Liberation Guide
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From my lips to your ears | The Body Liberation Guide

This is my last letter for 2022; you’ll next hear from me on January 9. Tonight I’m headed to a Zoom cookie-baking event with friends, and have a nice quiet holiday planned otherwise. I hope that the rest of this month is filled with joy for you. As the Twitter chaos continues, more and more…

[Image: A fat white woman with pink hair stands on the shore of a wooded lake in a purple sleeveless dress, with a wing-print scarf blowing in the wing behind her outstretched arms.]
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Exploitation cannot birth liberation

I want to follow up on my earlier piece about AI-generated artwork. People who are into AI art are telling me that this is a chance for fat people to see themselves represented and change their body image. But there’s a problem: exploitation will not create liberation. Here’s just one of the images that was…