{Podcast Month} Rising Whole with Prim Ormanovich: Everybody Profits From You Hating Your Body
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{Podcast Month} Rising Whole with Prim Ormanovich: Everybody Profits From You Hating Your Body

✨ For the month of December, enjoy these podcast episodes while I slow down, take a breath and plan for next year. ✨ On this episode of the Rising Whole podcast, Prim Ormanovich @risingwholeprim and I talk about how coherency in your business comes from having an underlying ethical framework or cause, and how my…

{Podcast Month} Eff Sh*t Up Friday with Dr. Melissa Bird
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{Podcast Month} Eff Sh*t Up Friday with Dr. Melissa Bird

✨ For the month of December, enjoy these podcast episodes while I slow down, take a breath and plan for next year. ✨ What do boudoir photography, subscription boxes and stock photos have in common? What even is a stock photo? How does body liberation play into all this? In this video, I chat with…

{Podcast Month} RadLove Radio with Amy Rapone: Representation Shows Us Where We Belong
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{Podcast Month} RadLove Radio with Amy Rapone: Representation Shows Us Where We Belong

✨ For the month of December, enjoy these podcast episodes while I slow down, take a breath and plan for next year. ✨ New podcast drop! I had the chance to talk with Health at Every Size®-aligned and fat-positive nutritionist Amy Rapone @radlove.nutrition on her podcast RadLove Radio @radloveradio. In this episode, we talk about:…

{Podcast Month} Hell Yeah Techcast with Jenn Hume: How to use diversity on your website to change the world + grow your business
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{Podcast Month} Hell Yeah Techcast with Jenn Hume: How to use diversity on your website to change the world + grow your business

✨ For the month of December, enjoy these podcast episodes while I slow down, take a breath and plan for next year. ✨ Every single time I’m asked to be on a podcast, it’s an honor, but it’s an especially big deal to be the very first guest on an existing podcast! Jenn Hume, owner…

{Podcast Month} Love, Food with Julie Duffy Dillon: Channeling Your Anger
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{Podcast Month} Love, Food with Julie Duffy Dillon: Channeling Your Anger

✨ For the month of December, enjoy these podcast episodes while I slow down, take a breath and plan for next year. ✨ If you’d like a shorter podcast listen, Love, Food is for you. In each episode, Julie answers a letter from a reader. As a podcast guest, I love this format because I…

{Podcast Month} Being unafraid of power with Leela Sinha on PowerPivot
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{Podcast Month} Being unafraid of power with Leela Sinha on PowerPivot

✨ For the month of December, enjoy these podcast episodes while I slow down, take a breath and plan for next year. ✨ So many of the dynamics around bodies, weight and worth are really about power, and it was fascinating to dig into those power dynamics with Leela Sinha, host of the PowerPivot podcast (not on…

{Podcast Month} How Activist Writing Creates Growth with Cat Pausé on the Friend of Marilyn Podcast
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{Podcast Month} How Activist Writing Creates Growth with Cat Pausé on the Friend of Marilyn Podcast

✨ For the month of December, enjoy these podcast episodes while I slow down, take a breath and plan for next year. ✨ When I began writing the Body Liberation Guide, my weekly newsletter, I didn’t expect it to change my life. A compilation of the resources I was already creating, sharing some of my…

{Podcast Month} Destiny’s Universe with Destiny DiMattei: Fat Liberation and Mental Health
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{Podcast Month} Destiny’s Universe with Destiny DiMattei: Fat Liberation and Mental Health

✨ For the month of December, enjoy these podcast episodes while I slow down, take a breath and plan for next year. ✨ One of the reasons I talk about vulnerability in business so much is that giving ourselves the grace and space to be vulnerable allows us to not expect perfection from ourselves or…

{Listen} Lindley on the Entrepreneurial Outlaws Podcast with Melanie Knights: Representing yourself as a marginalized business owner
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{Listen} Lindley on the Entrepreneurial Outlaws Podcast with Melanie Knights: Representing yourself as a marginalized business owner

The experience of being a business owner in a marginalized body is very different from the mainstream, and it’s one I spend a lot of time thinking about. It was a pleasure discuss it with Melanie Knights on the Entrepreneurial Outlaws podcast. I love the way Melanie described our episode: We are in a period…

{Podcast Month} Body Liberation for All with Dalia Kinsey: How Being Yourself Can Change the World
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{Podcast Month} Body Liberation for All with Dalia Kinsey: How Being Yourself Can Change the World

✨ For the month of December, enjoy these podcast episodes while I slow down, take a breath and plan for next year. ✨ If you’ve ever met someone and instantly known you’re going to be good friends, then you’ll know how I felt when I met Dalia Kinsey. In fact, we got along so well…

{Listen} Lindley on the Nourished Circle Podcast: Weight stigma in healthcare and what providers can change today
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{Listen} Lindley on the Nourished Circle Podcast: Weight stigma in healthcare and what providers can change today

I love talking about ending weight stigma in the real world, and how we get there on a practical level. What does that look like? Where do we go from here? In this episode of the Nourished Circle podcast, I talked with Lori Short-Zamudio about: Where weight stigma in healthcare comes from How what you…

Lindley & Body Liberation Photos
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Lindley & Body Liberation Photos

I used to think that I was too fat to be a professional photographer. I thought that no one would hire a fat photographer, that they’d laugh at the very thought. From the safety of my corporate job, I watched people in thin bodies make other thin people’s dream images come true. In 2014, my…

{Podcast Month} Food Psych with Christy Harrison: How to Make Peace with Photos of Yourself
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{Podcast Month} Food Psych with Christy Harrison: How to Make Peace with Photos of Yourself

✨ December is Podcast Month! I’m spending this month slowing down, taking deep breaths, digging into my own inner world, resting and planning my work and energy use for the next year. I won’t be providing as much free labor and education here as I normally do, so this is an excellent time to dig…

Listen: Lindley on the Recovery Bites Podcast with Karin Lewis
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Listen: Lindley on the Recovery Bites Podcast with Karin Lewis

In this episode, Karin Lewis is joined by Lindley Ashline, photographer, author, cat mom, entrepreneur, musician and activist. Lindley creates photographs that celebrate the unique beauty of bodies that fall outside conventional “beauty” standards. She fights weight stigma by giving fat people a safe place to explore how their bodies look on camera and by…

Listen: Lindley on Radiant Woman with Tarisha Tourok: Getting off the hook, fatphobia and choosing the right partner for your body type
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Listen: Lindley on Radiant Woman with Tarisha Tourok: Getting off the hook, fatphobia and choosing the right partner for your body type

Tarisha & Lindley discuss the myth that “loving your body is fine, but that can’t be healthy“. Women are afraid that if they love their body, they’ll let themselves off the hook and will stop taking care of themselves. Listen to what we have to say about the idea that we have to judge ourselves and punish ourselves…

40+ resources for holiday boundary setting and self care
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40+ resources for holiday boundary setting and self care

Holidays are when cultural and social norms are instilled and heavily reinforced. That means those of us who live in fat bodies, or are LGBT+, are pretty likely to face a lot of criticism in spaces that should be joyful and warm and welcome. It’s easy to say “well, just cut those toxic family members…

Is body positivity a gateway to fat acceptance?
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Is body positivity a gateway to fat acceptance?

The other day Laura Burns and I combined two separate analogies we’d come up with to form the theory of the two lakes: Donut Lake and Liberation Lake. Donut Lake is the home of body positivity. It’s full of fun pool floats and selfie cameras and bopo influencers. The water is warm and comfy, and…

Creator Month: Body Liberation Artist & Activist Kathryn Hack
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Creator Month: Body Liberation Artist & Activist Kathryn Hack

“My work began as my attempt to increase representation of fat bodies in art and media. After making hundreds of fat art pieces in the past 2 years, my own relationship with my body has radically improved. Seeing my body lovingly and beautifully portrayed in my work, transformed how I saw myself and how I…

Listen: Lindley on the All Fired Up! Podcast on Confidence Magic, Taking on Whole30 and Body Liberation Through Photos
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Listen: Lindley on the All Fired Up! Podcast on Confidence Magic, Taking on Whole30 and Body Liberation Through Photos

Louise Adams may call her wonderful podcast All Fired Up!, but I think of my episode as a phrase a little closer to my Southern U.S. roots: I’m all het up. I went down a small rabbit hole looking up the origins of that phrase, and it turns out that it’s a shortening of “heated…

Introduction to Discord Workshop – November 28
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Introduction to Discord Workshop – November 28

Learn how to use a powerful place for community! In this friendly and free basic workshop, learn how to use Discord, a popular Facebook alternative. 🗓️ November 28, 2021 ⏱️ 8 pm Eastern/7 CST/6 MST/5 PST 💸 Free (donations accepted) We’ll cover: » What is Discord? » How is Discord different from Facebook, Twitter or…

Listen: Eating Support & Health at Every Size® Chat with Chelsea Levy Nutrition
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Listen: Eating Support & Health at Every Size® Chat with Chelsea Levy Nutrition

I went way out of my comfort zone with Chelsea of Chelsea Levy Nutrition and ate on camera for a special Instagram live eating support session. It is so important to normalize fat folks eating in public. Too often, we get stares, comments or open stigma for simply doing what humans need to do: eat….

Listen: Lindley with Amy Rapone on the RadLove Radio Podcast
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Listen: Lindley with Amy Rapone on the RadLove Radio Podcast

New podcast drop! I had the chance to talk with Health at Every Size®-aligned and fat-positive nutritionist Amy Rapone on her podcast RadLove Radio. In this episode, we talk about: How I became a photographer despite never having seen anyone like me doing photography Susan Boyle and talking dogs Who finds career opportunities from 15…

Listen: How Activist Writing Creates Growth with Cat Pausé on the Friend of Marilyn Podcast
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Listen: How Activist Writing Creates Growth with Cat Pausé on the Friend of Marilyn Podcast

In this episode of Friend of Marilyn, Cat Pausé and I talk about the to-be-revived Body Love Box, the Body Liberation Guide and how what you focus on moves you forward.

Creator Month: Sculptor and Illustrator Saya Collins
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Creator Month: Sculptor and Illustrator Saya Collins

“The pieces I create are not perfect. They take a bit of me. I’m odd and I’m memorable, I love myself, and I love my work. Through my pieces I express my joy, my hopes, all of my experiences over the continuing course of my existence. Each piece is a piece of me, and when…

🥳 🎨 November is Creator Month! 🎨 🥳
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🥳 🎨 November is Creator Month! 🎨 🥳

I’m so excited to introduce you to an array of fat and marginalized creators (plus an ally or two). We’ll be talking to models, writers, artists, photographers and more. I’ll be posting one interview here per day. Since Nov. also contains Small Business Saturday, consider these as your businesses to support this year. Here’s how…

Listen: Lindley on the Destiny’s Universe Podcast
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Listen: Lindley on the Destiny’s Universe Podcast

One of the reasons I talk about vulnerability in business so much is that giving ourselves the grace and space to be vulnerable allows us to not expect perfection from ourselves or others. When we give ourselves the grace of imperfection, it means that when we mess up — as we inevitably will, as people…

🎤 Help a reporter, change the media narrative and save the world
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🎤 Help a reporter, change the media narrative and save the world

In which I describe how Health at Every Size®, fat liberation, fat acceptance, and body positivity advocates can use the Help a Reporter Out (HARO) list to change media narratives around bodies and weight. How to HARO: Help a Reporter Out, or HARO, is an email list that reporters use to find sources for stories….

Instant replay: Instagram Live – Kids, Body Image and Health at Every Size®
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Instant replay: Instagram Live – Kids, Body Image and Health at Every Size®

Today I’m asking body-positive and Health at Every Size®-aligned nanny and parent consultant Sarah @bodypositiveparenting all about her job, including: 🚸 What does a body-positive nanny do? What does #HAES have to do with it? 🚸 What should parents look for in a nanny who will help their kids grow up with a positive body image? 🚸 What Sarah…

The Body Liberation Blanket Fort: Why Discord?
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The Body Liberation Blanket Fort: Why Discord?

In which I talk about how and why I chose Discord for my body-positive, fat-positive community space. To get access, support my Patreon at any level. It starts at $1 USD per month (and if that’s a hardship for you, please let me know and I’ll be happy to give you free access). Once you…

Thin privilege is not having to learn both sewing and pattern making to have clothing that’s fun, stylish, creative, fits well…or just fits, period.
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Thin privilege is not having to learn both sewing and pattern making to have clothing that’s fun, stylish, creative, fits well…or just fits, period.

Thin privilege is not having to learn both sewing and pattern making to have clothing that’s fun, stylish, creative, fits well…or just fits, period. One of the most common dismissals that gets thrown at fat folks when we talk about how apparel companies would rather lose money than make clothing for us is, “You can…

Listen: Lindley on how businesses can welcome larger bodies on Massage Business Blueprint
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Listen: Lindley on how businesses can welcome larger bodies on Massage Business Blueprint

I love digging in and talking about the practical aspects of body liberation, especially when it comes to running a business. On Massage Business Blueprint, Allissa, Michael and I discuss how all types of brick-and-mortar businesses can attract and welcome fat folks as customers and clients, including: How to talk about fat bodies (fat? larger…

🚪 Why I set boundaries on my social media posts
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🚪 Why I set boundaries on my social media posts

In which I talk about why I set no-advice boundaries on some of my posts on Facebook and Instagram, and how you can support people you care about without giving unsolicited advice. Support this work by signing up for my free, beautiful and useful Body Liberation Guide newsletter at bit.ly/bodyliberationguide, and drop a dollar or…

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Thin privilege doesn’t make you a bad person or one with super special benefits.

Thin privilege doesn’t make you a bad person or one with super special benefits. The super special benefit is not facing the obstacles placed in the way of fat folks. Your body size is mostly or always included, and you don’t have to constantly think about it. Privilege is unearned, but it’s not something you…

Thin privilege is not having your body used as a shorthand for a long list of negative qualities, characteristics and traits.

Thin privilege is not having your body used as a shorthand for a long list of negative qualities, characteristics and traits.

Thin privilege is not having your body used as a shorthand for a long list of negative qualities, characteristics and traits. Dolores Umbridge. Ursula. Kingpin. Jabba the Hut. The Dursleys. Fat lawyers and politicians in 150 years of political cartoons. It’s no coincidence that so many villains in books and movies are fat. Their weight…

Origins of Weight Stigma #11: The just-world fallacy

Origins of Weight Stigma #11: The just-world fallacy

Why do people hate and fear fat bodies? Weight stigma — also known as fatphobia, fatmisia, anti-fatness and fat hatred — ties into threads of power and profit going back centuries. Let’s look at one of the factors: The just world fallacy. Our culture wants us to believe that bodies are simple machines with simple…

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Thin privilege is buying clothes off the rack at a brick-and-mortar store.

Thin privilege is buying clothes off the rack at a brick-and-mortar store. This is one of the areas where the spectrum of privilege is really easy to see. The larger your body, the more limits there are on where you can buy clothing, and the options diminish really rapidly. Folks who wear a size 24…